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Run one-to-ones and give useful feedback

Regular one-to-ones are where you learn what your PMs need and help them grow. Make them about the person, and give feedback that is specific and kind.

About 1 hourEvergreenLast reviewed 5 November 2026

Who this applies to

Skills it builds
Leadership and coachingCommunication and influence
PM types
All
Product types
All
Starting points
All
Ways of working
All
Experience
All
Size of organisation
All

Steps, by experience

Beginner (under 1 year)

  1. Hold a one-to-one with each PM every week or two.
  2. In the first one, ask how they like to work and receive feedback.
  3. Let them set most of the agenda.
  4. Give feedback on specific situations, what they did and its impact.
  5. Write down agreed actions and follow up.

Intermediate (1 to 4 years)

  1. Balance support, coaching and feedback.
  2. Give positive feedback as specifically as critical feedback.
  3. Talk about career growth regularly, not just at reviews.

Experienced (5+ years)

  1. Coach your managers to run good one-to-ones.
  2. Spot patterns across the team from one-to-ones.
  3. Handle hard conversations early.

Who can do this

Owner: Product manager

Tool examples

Notion
Keep a shared agenda and action list for each person.
Google Docs
Use a running one-to-one document.

Definition of done

  • Regular one-to-ones booked
  • Feedback preferences known
  • Actions followed up

Common pitfalls

  • Cancelling one-to-ones
  • Turning them into status updates
  • Vague feedback

Sources